Moment of clarity

I was sitting here when I had what alcoholics refer to as a “moment of clarity.”

There is a certain unmistakable moment when, try as we might to overlook it, it becomes clear that things are careening out of control. Often it's triggered by something seemingly tiny like a disapointment, a bad day of sort or just a harmless, little thought that creeps in to your brain. But its true weight hits later when your all alone and you begin to wonder how, exactly, you became the guy who you are, and have become.

My moment came tonight on an otherwise normal Thursday evening when, I was doing the routinely robotic cycle that starts my work schedule at my place of employment.

I have had moments like this a few times in my life usually before big dissions or hours of forced contemplation, But Tonight was different I wasn’t even in the realm of pondering my life, but as if almost blind sided the harsh reality hit me like a brick

Im going to be a father with in two weeks, I am no longer happy with my job, I feel constriced in my carrer growth and why have I wasted so much time and so on. Now not all of thees thoughts were bad just very pure and percice as to my life, its perspective and its direction.

Where are all these thoughts coming from all at once and as I sit to organize my thoughts, thinking with open eyes. I realized it came from a comment a very good friend of mine had said

They said “you need to step out and take a deep breath of freedom and let go of your stress”.

Wow Could it really be just that simple a breath.

I can say that moments like this are actually somewhat liberating. When You can actually look back and forward at all the depressing, gut-wrenching realities of your own life with a somewhat sense of detachment. You judge your self and you choices as an outsider.

My vision is clear as if were I was witnessing a marvelous sunset as a blind man for the first time, it is that vividly clear.

I know what I must do for myself, my son , my family and my career.

WHAT OPPORTUNITY HAVE YOU PLANTED TODAY ?

Have you ever noticed that when opportunity arises, it’s never in “our time”? Rather, it comes at sometimes the most “inopportune” times – meaning that we’re often not prepared to receive it and use it to our full advantage.

Many times, we plant seeds of intention…unintentionally. What I mean by that is sometimes we start thinking about what we want; except when we do, we have planted a seed of intention. Intention turns to action, and action results in an equal reaction. The same holds true for ill thoughts. there are some people who bring negative results into their lives because they plant unhealthy seeds in their minds. If you can think it, it can happen. The whole point of the matter is that whatever you think, you become. So if your true intention and desire is to land the job of your dreams, you will subconsciously begin acting on that thought’s behalf. The same holds true for pessimism and procrastination. If you think that you “can’t” perform a certain job, or “I’ll never own a house,” or “I can’t get that promotion,” etc. — then guess what? You won’t.

Opportunity always comes fast and furious but we have to be ready to receive it. When we plant the seed of intention – for whatever that may be – we must realize that it will come. It may not magically appear overnight, but when opportunity does come knocking at life’s door, you’ve got to be mentally and intuitively prepared by opening your mind to the potential and blessings that are ready to come into your life.
What are you thinking at this moment? are you’re ready to acquire prosperity, wealth, and happiness.
You can’t afford to not be prepared for opportunity. You know that whatever it is that your heart desires that you can attain it. But it begins with a seed of intention, and that intention requires action on your part. How far are you willing to go to land the job you’ve always wanted?

How deep are you willing to dive to find that buried treasure? How long are you going to keep stopping yourself from achieving success? It really boils down to you. You are a walking billboard indicative of your life. What you project is just as important as what you take into your mind’s eye. When your perception of life is in tune with your focus of intention, you begin to rapidly increase your chances at opportunity. Go ahead – plant your seed for opportunities today.

SOMETIMES PEOPLE DO NOT THINK ABOUT WHAT SEEDS THEY PLANT IN THIER LIVES.
JUST A LIL FOOD FOR THOUGHT....

Confront Your Fears, Don't Hold yourself Back

The things which we fear the most in life have already happend to us.
Robin Williams, One Hour Photo

Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear.


Are you a constant worrier? Ever wonder why? The reason behind all your worries is fear. This destructive emotion can wreak havoc in your life. We are all worried from time to time but being constantly worried is a cause of concern because it will only lead to depression. The best advice you can give your self is that, there is no time to worry 'now'! Taking initiative is important, and the best time to do that is now. Otherwise, you will not be able to free your self from all those negative thoughts that plague your mind. As your fear grows due to increasing negativity, you will feel trapped and stuck in a situation in which you could do little besides thinking more and more. Most of us consider, that thinking is a good habit, however excessive thinking will lead you no where. In fact you have take things in your hands

Fear is a negative force that that restricts you from excelling in your life. You don't want to try out new things simply because you are afraid. However, you have to over come this fear barrier. Think of the time you didn't go after that promotion because you feared you were not good enough. Due to fear we restrain ourselves from achieving things in our life. It denies us the gladness and success that we deserve. It keeps us from achieving our goals.

You can deal with your fear with curiosity. Simply ask yourself why you are afraid?

Face your fears with knowledgeable insights. Once you grasp the meaning of the reason behind your fear, they can simply disappear. You have to break yourself free of the restrictive thinking to conquer your fears. In fact, it just takes a moment to defeat your most dreaded fears.

There are times in our lives when we become or largest road blocks, when is it time to get out of your own way and say " you only got one shot at this thing called life why waste it......